Saturday, April 11, 2015

2.4 million likes for the traditional family

Well, for this one.

Guess what? We're all really pro-family. Despite what the media elites want you to believe.

Friday, April 3, 2015

My thought crime

 My thought crime for which I will be mocked and ridiculed by the

forces of media conglomerates. 

Biracial gay atheist kids are to be loved by their
biological mom and dad, as a married couple. 

It doesn't matter who you are (race, religion, creed, , gender or 

orientation) life's is easier when you mom and dad get along! 

Friday, March 27, 2015

7QT Llama Chases & Diamond RIngs

More Quick Takes at This Ain't the Lyceum 

1. My daughter is dancing to "Yakety Sax".  Yes, it's known as the theme to Benny Hill, but seen as a Tenor Sax solo or to Llamas it's quite enjoyable.

2. "No matter the cause a #children shouldn't feel #guilty for a lost/missing #parent in their lives."

It was a thought I posted on Twitter. Even if a missing parent was a dork (nice way to say a bad person), children have the right to acknowledge a lost parent..

3.  It was a response to this

"This is sad. RT : I’m a single mother by choice. One parent can be better two. "

4. How can one legally obliterate a father? Or Mother

""Elton John is literally promoting the obliteration of mothers—not by vilifying, but by pretending they don’t exist." "

5.  I witness an interesting discussion on Facebook on the engagement ring. Specifically the moral concerns about deBeers and the mining of diamonds creating unethical/inhumane conditions in acquiring the stone. 

There were many facets to the issue. Our culture sees an expensive ring as a prerequisite to marriage, this puts low-income men pretty much unmarriageable, when they may be perfectly fine as a husband and father. Money towards the home/student debt, instead of a ring. And we wonder why the average age of marriage is rising.   

I didn't want to respond too much, because the conversation quickly went to accusations of heteronormative traditions the should be abolished. (Read abolish marriage since it acknowledges and bonds femininity/masculinity).

6. New show "One Big Happy" bombed in the ratings. Happy about that, because normalizing married men fathering children with another woman is wrong, even if the other woman is a lesbian and they used artificial insemination. 

7. Maybe it's time to ditch the engagement ring?

Monday, March 16, 2015

South Boston's Saint Patrick's Day Parade (or any parade) has nothing to do with Saint Patrick.

Saint Patrick  is NOT the patron saint of Evacuation Day. The actual reason why people marched in Boston on March 17th.  

And Saint Patrick isn't just the patron saint of Ireland, but also of engineers and Nigerians. 

Did anyone invite them to the parade?

Back on March 17, 1776 the word "Saint Patrick" was a passcode during a military conflict on Dorchester Heights and it's the same day that British sympathizers had to "evacuate" Boston. 

That's it. 

Sorry, no luck of the Irish. Just a coincidence that a long planned military strategy that happened to be executed on March 17th. 

In fact the first parade in 1901 was referenced as an Evacuation Day Procession.

To fill in the void that the parade has nothing to do with Saint Patrick, the parade has plenty of politicians and corporate sponsors though.  

And lastly

The country of Ireland didn't have a parade until 1995, and that was to " began a large-scale campaign to market St. Patrick’s Day as a way of driving tourism and showcasing Ireland’s many charms to the rest of the world." I guess American tourists were dissapointed that there no parades!

Thursday, March 12, 2015

Dan Savage a puppet for the 1% ?

I get this in my news feed.

"Catholic dissenters' convention keynoter: A pornographic sex columnist?" from CNA

I read the article. The keynote speaker is Dan Savage.

"Dignity USA has been the beneficiary of several six-figure grants from the LGBT activist Arcus Foundation to support the Equally Blessed Coalition, which also includes the groups New Ways Ministry and Call to Action. A 2014 grant of $200,000 to the coalition through Dignity USA was intended “to support pro-LGBT faith advocates to influence and counter the narrative of the Catholic Church and its ultra-conservative affiliates,” the foundation said on its website."

The Arcus Foundation is engaged in a strategy of recruiting and promoting religious allies. Together with the Ford Foundation, it has spent at least $3 million in grants to counter efforts to preserve or expand religious liberty protections. 

Dan Savage says some pretty outrageous things, but that's his job. He does the ugly clown work, like mocking Christian high school students, when they walked out of his lecture.speech. But you have to ask yourself, who invited the guy in the first place? He isn't a journalist. He's a media personality/brand.

I say "clown work", because genuinely Dan Savage has a  natural talent at being funny. How he chooses it though, is ugly way against OUR faith. I say OUR faith, because Savage still identifies with Catholicism.

And apparently he's a big fan of pornography, a problem that plagues everyone no matter their orientation.  He's right when he said "[t]he right-wingers and the fundies and the sex-phobes don't just have it in for the queers. They're coming for your asses too." If you read his wiki page, you can find a few things you can agree with. 

I'm not questioning his orientation, or his personal troubles with pornography. That doesn't lead him to do what he really does. 

I'm questioning the BIG DEEP POCKETS. 

7QT But mom, You didn't do your Penance?

More Quick Takes at This Ain't the Lyceum  

1. Last week one of my children had first penance, parents had the opportunity to go up and have their confession heard. I went up. Usually I make an appointment and enjoy having 'the time'. I didn't, so I had to be concise. Also it was face to face, out in the open with chairs set up in different parts of the church/altar, but far away from everyone to have private communication.

2. My son almost forgot to do his penance, which was one Our Father. He knelt and did it. As we left, he asked why I didn't do my penance. I told him, my penance is different then your penance." He kept pestering me about me penance for days. I didn't divulge to him.

3. Without specifics my confession was about my frustrations in handling my children as a parent. I could handle my emotions a lot better. He told me that I should know what sets me off and step away. Of course I knew that, but yeah they've been pushing the boundaries of absolute obstinate behavior in particular areas of life.  They know I wont hit them or neglect them, I do remind them that stubborn children in need of assistance can go in front of a judge in Massachusetts.

After confessing my sins towards my children, the priest asked, "How's your relationship with your husband?" I responded "Wonderful!". The priest then gave me my penance, "Tonight right before you go to bed, give him a kiss on the cheek."

4. Real easy, you may think. Lame. Right? But we practice NFP and I was still in my fertile phase. If you are a woman who has a healthy relationship with her husband, a kiss on the cheek right before bed is sending a signal for sex. It's not like a kiss goodbye in the morning.

This priest (retired) knew what he was doing it.

Penance served. A few nights later.

5. Engaged parenting vs. accessible parenting?  

Lot's of caveats, but decades ago mothers didn't engage with their children with activities. For the most part, behaviorally kids were OK. This study is trying to understand the distinction.

"In 1965, American mothers spent an average of eight hours a week on paid work and 10 hours a week on child care. In 2011, they worked 21 hours a week—and spent 14 hours on child care. That is, even as they became much more likely to spend a significant amount of time at work, moms came to devote more time, not less, to their kids. "
 Good right? Well not. Apparently, it doesn't matter and possiblely being more engaged can create a problem?

6. My parents love me and they gave me a lot of opportunity, but we're not the most emotional people (we're kind of socially awkward distant for various reasons). My home was never that home where people just hang out, and your mom is like everyone's mom. I had older relatives who are like that. Their living room was everyone's living room, and that's where where adults and adolescents alike socialized.

I also have an older cousin, and she's EVERYONE'S GRANDMOTHER. I think she has about ten biological grandchildren, but about 30 people reference her as their Meme on Facebook.  My husband's grandmother, who is now in her mid-90s was that type of person of well. She never have awesome birthday parties or planned events, but you can always count on a lemon meringue or blueberry pie in the kitchen if you stopped by.

What has been your best penance?
Because Sacraments are suppose to be gifts of grace.

And what type of penance would a priest give the Pope?

Monday, March 9, 2015

Oh the Chutzpah of "Finding Your Roots"

Neil Patrick Harris' orientation is irrelevant, I've commented on Finding Your Roots covering the ancestry of Anderson Cooper (who is gay) making the point we all have roots. 

But when I learned that NPH is being featured on Finding Your Roots, I call chutzpah with an negative condemnation. If you use a surrogate and intentionally deny your children half of their ancestry, you shouldn't be on a show about ancestry. 
"When anyone uses sperm/egg donation, sealed adoption, or other means to hide kin from a person for your own personal want... well we need to reconsider the practice. No matter who you are, race or sexual orientation, we have an natural interest in our identity"